Showing posts with label generation 5. Show all posts
Showing posts with label generation 5. Show all posts

Sunday, April 28, 2019

Chapter 5-6

 After the all the somberness that has plagued the household over the past several weeks, Melon and I decided to drop everything and have a family day with the kids. We had fun swimming in our pool and just hung out all day long.


It was great to have some quality time with the kids, and get our minds off of everything for a little while.


The kids had a lot of fun together, laughing and playing like I haven't seen them do since before Dad died. It warmed my heart to see it.

Our little family seemed a lot closer, and happier, after that day.

Chapter 5-5



 I found out I was pregnant again when the twins entered elementary school, around 6 years old. I wasn't planning on having more children but it appears that the universe has other plans.




 I was happy to be having another baby, but this pregnancy was just as bad as the first, even though there is just one baby this time. We found out that it is another girl. Ivy is very excited to be having a little sister.



I spent the days at the studio. My back hurt most days, so I had to sit down a lot to get more comfortable. My customers were cool about it, and some even congratulated me on the new addition to the family.



When our new daughter, Jade, came along I remembered how much I missed having a little one in the house. She looks a lot like Ivy did as a baby. Hopefully she won't have the same attitude that Ivy has.


Thankfully she grew into a bubbly, happy little girl. It was nice to have a girl that isn't going to give me trouble.

Unfortunately, life isn't always fun and games. Dad had a severe heart attack and had to be rushed to the hospital. Mom was very worried about him. She stayed by his side 24/7. She called me with updates, while I was caring for Jade and Melon was at work.


Daisy: Hey Mom, how's dad doing?
Blossom: Not too good. The doctor says it's not likely that he's going to make it through the night. You might want to bring the kids down here to say your goodbyes. 
Daisy: Oh...okay. We'll stop by after everyone gets home.

My heart dropped when Mom said that. Dad isn't going to make it. This is going to be tough to deal with.


I brought the twins to come say goodbye. Mom stayed with Jade in the waiting room since children her age weren't allowed in the room. Clover was speechless, seeing his grandfather laying there like that, knowing he won't be around much longer. He starts to cry.

Daisy: It's okay to cry, Sweetie. I know it's hard.


Ivy was very upset by the news, and decided she didn't want to go in, so Melon stayed back with her.

Ivy: I don't want to see him like that, Dad. I want to remember him as he was when he was well.
Melon: I understand, honey. If you don't want to go in, I'm not going to force you. 

Melon took the kids home to get them to bed. I stayed behind with Mom so she wouldn't be alone when Dad passes.


Blossom: I-I can't believe this is it. I won't see him or his smile ever again.
Daisy: I know, it sucks. We're all going to miss him, but we'll make it though. I love you, Mom.
Blossom: Love you too, Daisy. Thanks for being here.

Dad passed away a couple hours later. As you can imagine, we were all devestated now that it has actually happened. We were all hoping that somehow he would come though this and be okay but that wasn't the case. 

I held it together as long as I could, but when I got home, I broke down. Luckily, Melon was there to comfort me. 

 
Daisy: I can't believe he's gone. Why does life have to be so cruel?
Melon: That's just how life is, unfortunately. Sorry for your loss, sweetie. I know I'll miss him too. I can only imagine how you're feeling right now.
Daisy: It's the worst feeling.
Melon: I'm sure it is. I never knew my father because he died before I was born. My mom died when I was really young so I don't really remember her. 
Daisy: Wow, I never knew that. So you have never lost anyone like this before?
Melon: Not that I remember, no. Now, let's try to get through this and stay strong for the kids, okay? I know it's going to be hard, but we need to do it for them. They don't need to see us this upset, ya know?
Daisy: Yeah, you're right, thanks Melon.
 

He helps me up off the floor and pulls me into an embrace. 

Melon: I love you, baby.
Daisy: I love you too. 

The tragedy didn't end there. A few months later, Mom collapsed outside and passed away before the ambulance got there. I honestly believe she died of a broken heart. She had been moping around after Dad's death. At least they are together now.


 In time, we moved on. It wasn't easy, but we did it. Hopefully we won't have to deal with this much sadness again for a very long time.

Saturday, April 27, 2019

Chapter 5-4


 The holidays came around, and I was heavily pregnant by that point. I had been saving a Winterfest surprise for Melon and now it was time to show him.





Daisy: Hey Melon, I have a surprise for you! Come here.
Melon: Oh? Okay.
Daisy: Sit.
Melon: Yes ma'am. So what is it?

I pull out my ultrasound and hand it to him. He takes it and stares at it blankly.



Melon: Um...I'm confused. Am I reading this right? It looks like there are two...
Daisy: Yes, baby, we're having twins! Isn't that great?
Melon: O-M-G! That's awesome! I thought I was seeing things. That explains why you started showing so early on.
Daisy: Yeah, I was shocked when the doctor told me. I thought it would be a nice surprise...
Melon: Yes, it's great, honey. Thank you so much! Wow, I can't wait to meet them. What genders are they?
Daisy: One boy and one girl!
Melon: Perfect!


 Pregnancy has been pretty good up until this past month. As my belly grew, so did my discomfort. The babies were kicking all the time, making it hard for me to sleep. My back was sore and my feet were swollen. Luckily Melon was there to comfort me.

Melon: Something wrong babe? You look uncomfortable.
Daisy: I am at the moment. The babies are wide awake right now. They're kicking up a storm right now.
Melon: Let me feel. Maybe I can soothe them.
Daisy: *chuckles* Okay Mr. Baby Whisperer



I join him on the bed and he pulls me on top of him.


Daisy: Feel right here
Melon: Wow, that's amazing. I felt it. Let me talk to them, maybe they'll calm down for a while so you can rest.
Daisy: Go for it.



He leans in closer and kisses my belly. He then starts softly talking to the babies. To my surprise, they settled down.

Melon: Guess I really am a baby whisperer. Now try and get some sleep, babe. You look exhausted.
Daisy: Yes, I am. Thanks...Daddy. 
Melon: You're welcome, Mama.

That was the best night sleep I had in a long while. I couldn't believe that worked. I guess they really love their daddy.



During the last trimester, I was finally able to get my studio opened for business. Thanks to Melon's recommendations, I got pretty busy.  Naturally, being pregnant, I couldn't stay open the long hours that I would like, so I cut the hours to just 6 hours a day until the babies are born. Melon helped me when he could, but he had to go to work most days.

 
 The contractions started while Melon was at work. They were bearable for a while, but then they started coming fast and furious so I rushed to the hospital. Melon met me there after he got off work. He comforted me while we waited until it was time to start pushing.

 

Melon: I can't imagine the pain you're in right now, but just think about the end result. We are finally going to meet our babies. We've been waiting months for this moment.
Daisy: I know. I just hurts so bad, honey. I just want them out already. I can't take this much longer.

I took a nap, and by the time I awoke, the babies were ready to come out. After the immense pain of the past several hours, I was relieved to finally be done with it. Melon held my hand the whole time.



The babies had finally arrived. We named our son Clover, and our daughter, Ivy. We took them home the next day.



Clover is Melon's mini-me except with my eyes. Ivy has my skin color, and Melon's hair and eyes. It is a fantastic feeling to finally have our babies in our arms. We are looking forward to the exciting new adventure of raising them.
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Two years later 

 The twins have hit the toddler years, and they're definitely a handful. It's been rough taking care of two babies at once but we got into the routine pretty shortly after they were born. The two of them are always together. I guess what they say about twins is true.


Ivy is a little firecracker and drama queen. She is the troublemaker of the two. She alone is enough to make me pull my hair out sometimes.


Clover is pretty laid back, an easy child, which I'm thankful for. He is always happy and smiling.


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